If you are wondering why it is taking so long to get that dream job or that deeply satisfying relationship, I can tell you that thinking about its absence is keeping it away.
So if you think about it, if you are wanting a deeply satisfying relationship, but keep noticing the absence of it, or if you keep noticing the annoying and deeply unsatisfying things your current partner is doing, you are only keeping what you want away.
In order to get what you want you must be able to receive it. What does that mean? Well it means that you have to be in the space to receive the thing you want, you have to have the ears to hear it and the eyes to see it. It you are, for the majority of time, seeing what is wrong in your current partner, or you are noticing the absence of any partner, than you do not have the eyes to see it, and you will miss it when it comes.
What does this mean for you? This means that you have to be in the emotional vicinity or the vibrational frequency to attract it, see it, and allow it into your experience. So when you are complaining about your lazy partner, you are in a totally different zip code from the true love that you want to experience.
This means that you have to notice less the things that are unwanted, and notice more the things that are wanted. So for example, when you see a happy couple walking through the park or in a restaurant and they seem to be really happy, feel the joy for them, feel the joy you would feel if this were you, when you do this…it translates to sending THIS vibrational frequency out, which means, you receiving it!
When you are happy for others, this sends a very powerful message to the Universe! The message being sent to the Universe is…..this is me, and I would love more of this!
What you place your attention on for an extended period of time, becomes your experience.
Look away from the things in your life that you do not want to experience anymore, and by law (universal law), it will have to leave your experience. The withdrawal of your energy (attention) from that object/relationship/situation will stop the feeding of it that your attention has been giving it. When you keep your mind, thoughts and feelings on what you want to experiences, by law, it will have to come.
The hardest part is maintaining your vibration when what you want hasn’t shown up yet. Think of it like this, the waiting provides you with more time to see in more clear detail what you want and what you don’t want. This is more clarifying time. The more you see what you do not want, this tells you what you DO want.
Just remember, your attention is a strong power, and it feeds whatever it is focused on. So feed the things that you really want with your powerful attention and focus , and the things that you want to leave your experience, don’t pay it mind.